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    <subtitle>growing up isn&#39;t what i thought it would be</subtitle>  
    
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        <p>My girlfriends Annalisa and Vanessa sent me some lovely flowers on Monday to further brighten my day. They&#39;re just so pretty I had to bust out the camera and save them for posterity.</p>
<p>I thought the little faux bird was actually quite cute--I didn&#39;t even see him at first!</p>
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        <title>Blog stats kinda&#39; creep me out...</title>   
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        <p>So, I&#39;ve been playing with my visitors reports, reviewing them and trying to see when and why traffic increases, and for the most part I pick up a few new readers every couple of days who take a look and come back once in a while.</p>
<p>But today someone new spent an hour and half straight going through what looks to be every single public&#160;page on my blog, and a bunch&#160;of photos too. This wasn&#39;t some auto-crawler that loads a page for a second and moves on, it was definitely a person and with an ISP affiliated with a university too.</p>
<p>Not sure why that weirds me out. I guess I just figure that much time should be followed by at least an email or a friend request or something. Maybe part of it is that most of the people who read regularly or in-depth(ly?)&#160;have made themselves known to me, even if in just via an online profile.</p>
<p>Well, nothing to be done about it now. This public adventure can&#39;t be erased from memory, though I&#39;m not sure I&#39;d want to if I could. Still, it&#39;s the first time in a long time I&#39;ve worried about exposing the best and worst of me here.</p>
<p>Whoever you are, oh Valley reader, you&#39;re welcome to stay and come again. And if you feel like it, drop a line and introduce yourself. I&#39;ve probably double the number of public posts that only my Vox neighborhood and friends can read, so if you&#39;re interested in those, an introduction is the first step.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>And, she&#39;s back!</title>   
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        <p>Yesterday&#160;was my first real day completely back in the land of the living. I woke early, feeling blissfully rested, and began a day of small errands--cleaning the house, organizing my garage and my tool bench (yes, MY tool bench), and pulling all the dollar weed out of the front lawn. I also took Evita for her first real walk in two weeks, and we were both glad to be out in the sunshine.</p>
<p>I also went out on the town a bit last night, attending a birthday party for a friend. It was quite the schedule. I skipped dinner and the after party, but went to the pre-party and the club--a new Austin club, Pangea. (It&#39;s a nice place, and they&#39;ve got at least one girl dancer who can move her body like a cyclone, so it was an entertaining night all around.) Just one quick anecdote for the evening: Before we left the apartment, the birthday boy took me aside and started to&#160; chastise me about not planning to go to the after-party. He said, &quot;Come on, Vanessa, don&#39;t do this to me,&quot; jokingly of course, and then said, &quot;besides, there&#39;s someone I want you to meet.&quot; My completely filterless response was to look him in the eye and blurt out, &quot;I&#39;m not divorced yet.&quot; I immediately felt like, oh, I don&#39;t know...some sort of provincial greenhorn...I mean, of all the witty things I could have said (and trust me, I&#39;m quite the witty girl), <em>that&#39;s </em>what popped out of my mouth. Good grief. I guess I will have to work on visualizing actually looking for love instead of just hoping and praying for it.</p>
<p>I&#39;m relaxing now, but I have a banana pudding to make for a Super Bowl party so I need to log off in a sec. But first,today&#39;s ridiculous moment, brought to you by staying out late and being distracted on the phone. So, I went to the grocery store earlier to pick up a few things, and when I was finished I walked out the door and blankly stared at the parking lot. I absolutely could not remember where I parked. And I&#39;m not talking about, &quot;I thought I was in this aisle, but I was one over,&quot; I mean that I had no recollection of parking at all and no idea of where my car might be. Close in? Off to the right? No joke, I wandered about eight aisles of the parking lot, up and down and back again, for about ten minutes before I found my car. (Dear lord, I&#39;m not even thirty and I&#39;m turning into my&#160;mother!)&#160;</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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